The quickest way to find love is to give love. If you want it too badly, you will not find it. The most secure way to keep love is to give it space and care to grow. If you hold it too tightly, you will lose it.
after much pondering, i have decided to finally give my restaurant another shot! … i meant my restaurant in facebook. here’s how it looks when it closed down:
here’s how it look like now:
see the difference?? haha.
the quote written above doesn’t really corresponds to what i just wrote right now. but i have to admit that it definitely was the right message for me. well, as nobody knows, i’m quite desperate for love at this moment. why? the hell, i’m lonely, i feel awful, and i feel ugly (never thought a guy like me would feel like this just because he’s loveless). and i think the only way to get rid of these sad feelings is to find love. cheesy. (sigh). but the right person hasn’t came yet, and my only prospect as of the moment is definitely not the right person. why? God knows why.
That’s the first issue.
Have you ever heard of the ongoing fidelity issue between Kris Aquino and James Yap? For those who does not know them, Aquino is only the second most powerful celebrity in the Philippines right now plus she is the daughter of the first woman president in the Philippines. Yap is a basketball player in one of the local teams in the Philippines. both of them are very popular and their issue had been a front page worthy in Philippine broad sheet standards (these issues does not usually go front page in Malaysia).
That is just an introduction to my second issue.
Although its not about fidelity, my issue also involves a couple’s issue. It’s about responsibility. When a man marries a woman, that man becomes responsible to the woman’s needs as well as the woman, to that man’s needs, and both of them to their children’s needs. for me, marriage is not like a hot rice that anyone could easily throw out of their mouth if it is very hot for them to handle. it entails sacrifice, and determination to fulfill the responsibilities that you vowed. there is no comfort zone, each should adjust to the new life that they will encounter in the future. because if no one would, or only one would adjust, definitely, it won’t last.
a person (who’s already on the right age) that still stays in his parent’s house and still sucks the milk out of his mom’s breast, and GETS MARRIED, is an eager irresponsible asshole.
“stand on your own feet stupid!”.
